I lost a baby in 2011. Years later, I can still recall the pain and details of that time period more vividly than almost any time in my life. I remember being on hold, waiting for my doctor’s office to pick up the phone, while I sobbed and listened to the prerecorded hold message taunting me: “Pregnancy is a time of joy and endless wonder. Thank you for choosing our team to accompany you on this wonderful journey. Please remain on the line and someone will be with you shortly.”